Dispassionate state

Progressive detachment arising out of a cogent, coherent, convergent, unbiased, clear, real, unbiased perception; balanced, holistic and experiential understanding of the self, the world and reality as is. This process takes place parallely and progressively with increasing awareness of the self, one's true nature (Dravya, Guna, Paryaya). This evolution of the self in parallel to detachment from others is truly a dispassionate state.

Unlearning and learning

Growth expects both unlearning and learning.

Unlearning habits, patterns, blindspots in the light of awareness (Pragya). 

Learning in the light of holistic experiential understanding (as it is).

Meeting each unfolding moment afresh, 

Merely present as a knower,

A choiceless, unbiased, mature, contentful, settled experience of the present moment while still anchored on the soul.

Gradually, unhurriedly and gracefully receding away from the mundane and proceeding confidently deeper towards the soul.

Meeting the self and settling down within.

Live for yourself

"They will criticize you for what you are, for what you are not, and for what they think you are.

They will judge you for what you do, for what you don't do, and for what you fail to do. They will talk about you for what you say and for what you keep silent about.

They will point at you for your successes and for your mistakes, for your decisions and for your doubts. No matter how much you try to please, there will always be opinions.

So, live for yourself, because in the end, the only thing that matters is being true to your own path."

HARRISON FORD